cmd/go: save checksums for go.mod files needed for go version lines
When we load a package from a module, we need the go version line from
that module's go.mod file to know what language semantics to use for
the package. We need to save a checksum for the go.mod file even if
the module's requirements are pruned out of the module graph.
Previously, we were missing checksums for test dependencies of
packages in 'all' and packages passed to 'go get -t'.
This change preserves the existing bug for 'go mod tidy' in older
module versions, but fixes it for 'go mod tidy' in modules at go 1.21
or higher and for 'go get -t' at all versions.