[dev.ssa] cmd/compile: clean up tuple types and selects
Make tuple types and their SelectX ops fully generic.
These ops no longer need to be lowered.
Regalloc understands them and their tuple-generating arguments.
We can now have opcodes returning arbitrary pairs of results.
(And it would be easy to move to >2 results if needed.)
Update arm implementation to the new standard.
Implement just enough in 386 port to do 64-bit add.