runtime: fix race that dropped GoSysExit events from trace

runtime: fix race that dropped GoSysExit events from trace

This makes TestTraceStressStartStop much less flaky.
Running under stress, it changes the failure rate from
above 1/100 to under 1/50000. That very unlikely
failure happens when an unexpected GoSysExit is
written. Not sure how that happens yet, but it is much
less important.

Fixes #11953.

Change-Id: I034671936334b4f3ab733614ef239aa121d20247
Reviewed-on: https://go-review.googlesource.com/13321
Reviewed-by: Dmitry Vyukov <dvyukov@google.com>