cmd/compile,cmd/link: fix and re-enable open-coded defers on riscv64
The R_CALLRISCV relocation marker is on the JALR instruction, however the actual
relocation is currently two instructions previous for the AUIPC+ADDI sequence.
Adjust the platform dependent offset accordingly and re-enable open-coded defers.
Fixes #36786.
Change-Id: I71597c193c447930fbe94ce44b7355e89ae877bb
Reviewed-on: https://go-review.googlesource.com/c/go/+/216797
Run-TryBot: Joel Sing <joel@sing.id.au>
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