sync: add new Map method LoadAndDelete

sync: add new Map method LoadAndDelete

This CL implements a LoadAndDelete method in sync.Map. Benchmark:

name                                              time/op
LoadAndDeleteBalanced/*sync_test.RWMutexMap-12    98.8ns ± 1%
LoadAndDeleteBalanced/*sync.Map-12                10.3ns ±11%
LoadAndDeleteUnique/*sync_test.RWMutexMap-12      99.2ns ± 2%
LoadAndDeleteUnique/*sync.Map-12                  6.63ns ±10%
LoadAndDeleteCollision/*sync_test.DeepCopyMap-12   140ns ± 0%
LoadAndDeleteCollision/*sync_test.RWMutexMap-12   75.2ns ± 2%
LoadAndDeleteCollision/*sync.Map-12               5.21ns ± 5%

In addition, Delete is bounded and more efficient if many collisions:

DeleteCollision/*sync_test.DeepCopyMap-12   120ns ± 2%   125ns ± 1%   +3.80%  (p=0.000 n=10+9)
DeleteCollision/*sync_test.RWMutexMap-12   73.5ns ± 3%  79.5ns ± 1%   +8.03%  (p=0.000 n=10+9)
DeleteCollision/*sync.Map-12               97.8ns ± 3%   5.9ns ± 4%  -94.00%  (p=0.000 n=10+10)

Fixes #33762

Change-Id: Ic8469a7861d27ab0edeface0078aad8af9b26c2f
Reviewed-on: https://go-review.googlesource.com/c/go/+/205899
Reviewed-by: Bryan C. Mills <bcmills@google.com>
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