cmd/cgo: replace C.malloc with our own wrapper

cmd/cgo: replace C.malloc with our own wrapper

This allows us to make two changes:

1. Force the argument type to be size_t, even on broken
   systems that declare malloc to take a ulong.

2. Call runtime.throw if malloc fails.
   (That is, the program crashes; it does not panic.)

Fixes #3403.
Fixes #5926.

R=golang-dev, iant
CC=golang-dev
https://golang.org/cl/13413047