cmd/compile: implement comparisons directly with memory

cmd/compile: implement comparisons directly with memory

Allow the compiler to generate code like CMPQ 16(AX), $7

It's tricky because it's difficult to spill such a comparison during
flagalloc, because the same memory state might not be available at
the restore locations.

Solve this problem by decomposing the compare+load back into its parts
if it needs to be spilled.

The big win is that the write barrier test goes from:

MOVL	runtime.writeBarrier(SB), CX
TESTL	CX, CX
JNE	60

to

CMPL	runtime.writeBarrier(SB), $0
JNE	59

It's one instruction and one byte smaller.

Fixes #19485
Fixes #15245
Update #22460

Binaries are about 0.15% smaller.

Change-Id: I4fd8d1111b6b9924d52f9a0901ca1b2e5cce0836
Reviewed-on: https://go-review.googlesource.com/86035
Reviewed-by: Cherry Zhang <cherryyz@google.com>
Reviewed-by: Ilya Tocar <ilya.tocar@intel.com>