net/http: add Server.Close & Server.Shutdown for forced & graceful shutdown

net/http: add Server.Close & Server.Shutdown for forced & graceful shutdown

Also updates x/net/http2 to git rev 541150 for:

   http2: add support for graceful shutdown of Server
   https://golang.org/cl/32412

   http2: make http2.Server access http1's Server via an interface check
   https://golang.org/cl/32417

Fixes #4674
Fixes #9478

Change-Id: I8021a18dee0ef2fe3946ac1776d2b10d3d429052
Reviewed-on: https://go-review.googlesource.com/32329
Run-TryBot: Brad Fitzpatrick <bradfitz@golang.org>
Reviewed-by: Brad Fitzpatrick <bradfitz@golang.org>