[release-branch.go1.20] crypto/tls: align FIPS-only mode with BoringSSL policy

[release-branch.go1.20] crypto/tls: align FIPS-only mode with BoringSSL policy

This enables TLS 1.3, disables P-521, and disables non-ECDHE suites.

Updates #64717
Updates #62372
Fixes #64718

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