spec: ignore struct tags when converting structs

spec: ignore struct tags when converting structs

This is a backwards-compatible language change.

Per the proposal (#16085), the rules for conversions are relaxed
such that struct tags in any of the structs involved in the conversion
are ignored (recursively).

Because this is loosening the existing rules, code that compiled so
far will continue to compile.

For #16085.
Fixes #6858.

Change-Id: I0feef651582db5f23046a2331fc3f179ae577c45
Reviewed-on: https://go-review.googlesource.com/24190
Reviewed-by: Russ Cox <rsc@golang.org>