runtime: implement xadduintptr and update system mstats using it

runtime: implement xadduintptr and update system mstats using it

The motivation is that sysAlloc/Free() currently aren't safe to be
called without a valid G, because arm's xadd64() uses locks that require
a valid G.

The solution here was proposed by Dmitry Vyukov: use xadduintptr()
instead of xadd64(), until arm can support xadd64 on all of its
architectures (not a trivial task for arm).

Change-Id: I250252079357ea2e4360e1235958b1c22051498f
Reviewed-on: https://go-review.googlesource.com/9002
Reviewed-by: Dmitry Vyukov <dvyukov@google.com>