runtime: refactor coalescing into its own method

runtime: refactor coalescing into its own method

The coalescing process is complex and in a follow-up change we'll need
to do it in more than one place, so this change factors out the
coalescing code in freeSpanLocked into a method on mheap.

Change-Id: Ia266b6cb1157c1b8d3d8a4287b42fbcc032bbf3a
Reviewed-on: https://go-review.googlesource.com/c/157838
Run-TryBot: Michael Knyszek <mknyszek@google.com>
TryBot-Result: Gobot Gobot <gobot@golang.org>
Reviewed-by: Austin Clements <austin@google.com>