cmd/compile: improve error when setting unexported fields

cmd/compile: improve error when setting unexported fields

Improve the error user experience when users try to set/refer
to unexported fields and methods of struct literals, by directly saying

    "cannot refer to unexported field or method"

Fixes #31053

Change-Id: I6fd3caf64b7ca9f9d8ea60b7756875e340792d59
Reviewed-on: https://go-review.googlesource.com/c/go/+/201657
Run-TryBot: Emmanuel Odeke <emm.odeke@gmail.com>
Reviewed-by: Matthew Dempsky <mdempsky@google.com>
TryBot-Result: Gobot Gobot <gobot@golang.org>