runtime: refactor insertion slot tracking for fast hashmap functions
* Avoid calculating insertk until needed.
* Avoid a pointer into b.tophash and just track the insertion index.
This avoids b.tophash being marked as escaping to heap.
* Calculate val only once at the end of the mapassign functions.
Function sizes decrease slightly, e.g. for mapassign_faststr:
before "".mapassign_faststr STEXT size=1166 args=0x28 locals=0x78
after "".mapassign_faststr STEXT size=1080 args=0x28 locals=0x68