cmd/compile: don't merge load+op if other op arg is still live

cmd/compile: don't merge load+op if other op arg is still live

We want to merge a load and op into a single instruction

    l = LOAD ptr mem
    y = OP x l

into

    y = OPload x ptr mem

However, all of our OPload instructions require that y uses
the same register as x. If x is needed past this instruction, then
we must copy x somewhere else, losing the whole benefit of merging
the instructions in the first place.

Disable this optimization if x is live past the OP.

Also disable this optimization if the OP is in a deeper loop than the load.

Update #19595

Change-Id: I87f596aad7e91c9127bfb4705cbae47106e1e77a
Reviewed-on: https://go-review.googlesource.com/38337
Reviewed-by: Ilya Tocar <ilya.tocar@intel.com>