runtime: fix memory profiler

runtime: fix memory profiler
There are 3 issues:
1. Skip argument of callers is off by 3,
so that all allocations are deep inside of memory profiler.
2. Memory profiling statistics are not updated after runtime.GC.
3. Testing package does not update memory profiling statistics
before capturing the profile.
Also add an end-to-end test.
Fixes #8867.

LGTM=rsc
R=rsc
CC=golang-codereviews
https://golang.org/cl/148710043