gopark calls the unlock function after setting the G to _Gwaiting.
This means it's generally unsafe to access the G's stack from the
unlock function because the G may start running on another P. Once we
start shrinking stacks concurrently, a stack shrink could also move
the stack the moment after it enters _Gwaiting and before the unlock
function is called.
Document this restriction and fix the two places where we currently
violate it.
This is unlikely to be a problem in practice for these two places
right now, but they're already skating on thin ice. For example, the
following sequence could in principle cause corruption, deadlock, or a
panic in the select code:
On M1/P1:
1. G1 selects on channels A and B.
2. selectgoImpl calls gopark.
3. gopark puts G1 in _Gwaiting.
4. gopark calls selparkcommit.
5. selparkcommit releases the lock on channel A.
On M2/P2:
6. G2 sends to channel A.
7. The send puts G1 in _Grunnable and puts it on P2's run queue.
8. The scheduler runs, selects G1, puts it in _Grunning, and resumes G1.
9. On G1, the sellock immediately following the gopark gets called.
10. sellock grows and moves the stack.
On M1/P1:
11. selparkcommit continues to scan the lock order for the next
channel to unlock, but it's now reading from a freed (and possibly
reused) stack.
This shouldn't happen in practice because step 10 isn't the first call
to sellock, so the stack should already be big enough. However, once
we start shrinking stacks concurrently, this reasoning won't work any
more.