cmd/compile: fix phi-function updates for preemptible loops

cmd/compile: fix phi-function updates for preemptible loops

Previous code failed to account for particular control flow
involving nested loops when updating phi function inputs.
Fix involves:
1) remove incorrect shortcut
2) generate a "better" order for children in dominator tree
3) note inner-loop updates and check before applying
   outer-loop updates.

Fixes #20675.

Change-Id: I2fe21470604b5c259e777ad8b15de95f7706894d
Reviewed-on: https://go-review.googlesource.com/45791
Run-TryBot: David Chase <drchase@google.com>
TryBot-Result: Gobot Gobot <gobot@golang.org>
Reviewed-by: Cherry Zhang <cherryyz@google.com>