cmd/compile: fix ICE from go/defer call to variadic function

cmd/compile: fix ICE from go/defer call to variadic function

The special case logic for go/defer arguments in Escape.call was
scattered around a bit and was somewhat inconsistently handled across
different types of function calls and parameters. This CL pulls the
logic out into a separate callStmt method that's used uniformly for
all kinds of function calls and arguments.

Fixes #31573.

Change-Id: Icdcdf611754dc3fcf1af7cb52879fb4b73a7a31f
Reviewed-on: https://go-review.googlesource.com/c/go/+/173019
Run-TryBot: Matthew Dempsky <mdempsky@google.com>
TryBot-Result: Gobot Gobot <gobot@golang.org>
Reviewed-by: Cherry Zhang <cherryyz@google.com>