runtime: add missing write barriers in append's copy of slice data

runtime: add missing write barriers in append's copy of slice data

Found with GODEBUG=wbshadow=1 mode.
Eventually that will run automatically, but right now
it still detects other missing write barriers.

Change-Id: Ic8624401d7c8225a935f719f96f2675c6f5c0d7c
Reviewed-on: https://go-review.googlesource.com/2064
Reviewed-by: Rick Hudson <rlh@golang.org>
Reviewed-by: Austin Clements <austin@google.com>