cmd/link: don't generate .exe extension for external Windows link
On Windows, gcc -o foo will generate foo.exe. Prevent that from
happening by adding a final '.' if necessary so that GCC thinks that
the file already has an extension.
Also remove the initial output file when doing an external link, and
use mayberemoveoutfile, not os.Remove, when building an archive
(otherwise we will do the wrong thing for -buildmode=c-archive -o
/dev/null).
I didn't add a test, as it requires using cgo and -o on Windows.