runtime: support preemption on windows/{386,amd64}
This implements preemptM on Windows using SuspendThead and
ResumeThread.
Unlike on POSIX platforms, preemptM on Windows happens synchronously.
This means we need a make a few other tweaks to suspendG:
1. We need to CAS the G back to _Grunning before doing the preemptM,
or there's a good chance we'll just catch the G spinning on its
status in the runtime, which won't be preemptible.
2. We need to rate-limit preemptM attempts. Otherwise, if the first
attempt catches the G at a non-preemptible point, the busy loop in
suspendG may hammer it so hard that it never makes it past that
non-preemptible point.
Updates #10958, #24543.
Change-Id: Ie53b098811096f7e45d864afd292dc9e999ce226
Reviewed-on: https://go-review.googlesource.com/c/go/+/204340
Run-TryBot: Austin Clements <austin@google.com>
TryBot-Result: Gobot Gobot <gobot@golang.org>
Reviewed-by: Cherry Zhang <cherryyz@google.com>