runtime: replace STW for enabling write barriers with ragged barrier

runtime: replace STW for enabling write barriers with ragged barrier

Currently, we use a full stop-the-world around enabling write
barriers. This is to ensure that all Gs have enabled write barriers
before any blackening occurs (either in gcBgMarkWorker() or in
gcAssistAlloc()).

However, there's no need to bring the whole world to a synchronous
stop to ensure this. This change replaces the STW with a ragged
barrier that ensures each P has individually observed that write
barriers should be enabled before GC performs any blackening.

Change-Id: If2f129a6a55bd8bdd4308067af2b739f3fb41955
Reviewed-on: https://go-review.googlesource.com/8207
Reviewed-by: Russ Cox <rsc@golang.org>
Reviewed-by: Rick Hudson <rlh@golang.org>