[release-branch.go1.7] net: restore per-query timeout logic

[release-branch.go1.7] net: restore per-query timeout logic

The handling of "options timeout:n" is supposed to be per individual
DNS server exchange, not per Lookup call.

Fixes #16865.

Change-Id: I2304579b9169c1515292f142cb372af9d37ff7c1
Reviewed-on: https://go-review.googlesource.com/28057
Run-TryBot: Matthew Dempsky <mdempsky@google.com>
TryBot-Result: Gobot Gobot <gobot@golang.org>
Reviewed-by: Brad Fitzpatrick <bradfitz@golang.org>
Reviewed-on: https://go-review.googlesource.com/28640