cmd/compile: fix GOEXPERIMENT checks

cmd/compile: fix GOEXPERIMENT checks

GOEXPERIMENT is only set during make.bash, so checking the environment
variable isn't effectual. Instead, check the values exposed by objabi.

These experiments look potentially safe, but it seems too late in the
release cycle to try to assuage that. The one exception is frame
pointer experiment, which is trivially safe: it just amounts to
incrementing some stack offsets by PtrSize.

Fixes #22223.

Change-Id: I46dc7c54b1347143d02d6b9635038230cda6d164
Reviewed-on: https://go-review.googlesource.com/80760
Reviewed-by: Russ Cox <rsc@golang.org>