runtime: make TestMemStats failure messages useful
Currently most TestMemStats failures dump the whole MemStats object if
anything is amiss without telling you what is amiss, or even which
field is wrong. This makes it hard to figure out what the actual
problem is.
Replace this with a reflection walk over MemStats and a map of
predicates to check. If one fails, we can construct a detailed and
descriptive error message. The predicates are a direct translation of
the current tests.