database/sql: record the context error in Rows if canceled
Previously it was intended that Rows.Scan would return
an error and Rows.Err would return nil. This was problematic
because drivers could not differentiate between a normal
Rows.Close or a context cancel close.
The alternative is to require drivers to return a Scan to return
an error if the driver is closed while there are still rows to be read.
This is currently not how several drivers currently work and may be
difficult to detect when there are additional rows.
At the same time guard the the Rows.lasterr and prevent a close
while a Rows operation is active.
For the drivers that do not have Context methods, do not check for
context cancelation after the operation, but before for any operation
that may modify the database state.