runtime: fix race between unminit and Windows profile loop
Currently, the Windows profile loop isn't robust against racing with
unminit. For example,
T1 is running profileloop1, T2 is another thread
T1: thread := atomic.Loaduintptr(&T2.thread)
T2: calls unminit, which does CloseHandle(T2.thread)
T1: attempts to suspends T2
In this case the SuspendThread will fail, but currently we ignore this
failure and forge ahead, which will cause further failures and
probably bad profile data.
Handle this race by defending against SuspendThread failing. If
SuspendThread succeeds, then we know the thread is no longer going
anywhere.