database/sql: Retry with a fresh connection after maxBadConnRetries
Previously if the connection pool was larger than maxBadConnRetries
and there were a lot of bad connections in the pool (for example if
the database server was restarted), a query might have failed with an
ErrBadConn unnecessarily. Instead of trying to guess how many times
to retry, try maxBadConnRetries times and then force a fresh
connection to be used for the last attempt. At the same time, lower
maxBadConnRetries to a smaller value now that it's not that important
to retry so many times from the free connection list.