net: make cgo resolver work more accurately with network parameter

net: make cgo resolver work more accurately with network parameter

Unlike the go resolver, the existing cgo resolver exchanges both DNS A
and AAAA RR queries unconditionally and causes unreasonable connection
setup latencies to applications using the cgo resolver.

This change adds new argument (`network`) in all functions through the
series of calls: from Resolver.internetAddrList to cgoLookupIPCNAME.

Benefit: no redundant DNS calls if certain IP version is used IPv4/IPv6
(no `AAAA` DNS requests if used tcp4, udp4, ip4 network. And vice
versa: no `A` DNS requests if used tcp6, udp6, ip6 network)

Fixes #25947

Change-Id: I39edbd726d82d6133fdada4d06cd90d401e7e669
Reviewed-on: https://go-review.googlesource.com/c/120215
Reviewed-by: Brad Fitzpatrick <bradfitz@golang.org>