cmd/compile: use ISEL, cleanup use of zero & extensions

cmd/compile: use ISEL, cleanup use of zero & extensions

Abandoned earlier efforts to expose zero register,
but left it in numbering to decrease squirrelyness of
register allocator.

ISELrelOp used in code generation of bool := x relOp y.
Some patterns added to better elide zero case and
some sign extension.

Updates: #17109

Change-Id: Ida7839f0023ca8f0ffddc0545f0ac269e65b05d9
Reviewed-on: https://go-review.googlesource.com/29380
Run-TryBot: David Chase <drchase@google.com>
TryBot-Result: Gobot Gobot <gobot@golang.org>
Reviewed-by: Keith Randall <khr@golang.org>
Reviewed-by: Cherry Zhang <cherryyz@google.com>