net: avoid multiple calling of syscall connect on Unix variants

net: avoid multiple calling of syscall connect on Unix variants

The previous fix CL 69340044 still leaves a possibility of it.
This CL prevents the kernel, especially DragonFly BSD, from
performing unpredictable asynchronous connection establishment
on stream-based transport layer protocol sockets.

Update #7541
Update #7474

LGTM=jsing
R=jsing
CC=golang-codereviews
https://golang.org/cl/75930043