cmd/compile: note escape of parts of closured-capture vars

cmd/compile: note escape of parts of closured-capture vars

Missed a case for closure calls (OCALLFUNC && indirect) in
esc.go:esccall.

Cleanup to runtime code for windows to more thoroughly hide
a technical escape.  Also made code pickier about failing
to late non-optional kernel32.dll.

Fixes #14409.

Change-Id: Ie75486a2c8626c4583224e02e4872c2875f7bca5
Reviewed-on: https://go-review.googlesource.com/20102
Run-TryBot: David Chase <drchase@google.com>
Reviewed-by: Brad Fitzpatrick <bradfitz@golang.org>