spec: clarify the difference between &T{} and new(T)

spec: clarify the difference between &T{} and new(T)

Add a small paragraph and example pointing out
the difference for the case where T is a slice
or map. This is a common error for Go novices.

Fixes #29425.

Change-Id: Icdb59f25361e9f6a09b190fbfcc9ae0c7d90077b
Reviewed-on: https://go-review.googlesource.com/c/go/+/176338
Reviewed-by: Matthew Dempsky <mdempsky@google.com>