crypto/tls: don't hold lock when closing underlying net.Conn.

crypto/tls: don't hold lock when closing underlying net.Conn.

There's no need to hold the handshake lock across this call and it can
lead to deadlocks if the net.Conn calls back into the tls.Conn.

Fixes #18426.

Change-Id: Ib1b2813cce385949d970f8ad2e52cfbd1390e624
Reviewed-on: https://go-review.googlesource.com/36561
Run-TryBot: Adam Langley <agl@golang.org>
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Reviewed-by: Brad Fitzpatrick <bradfitz@golang.org>