net: send EDNS(0) packet length in DNS query

net: send EDNS(0) packet length in DNS query

We used to only accept up to 512 bytes in a DNS packet, per RFC 1035.
Increase the size we accept to 1232 bytes, per https://dnsflagday.net/2020/,
and advertise that larger limit in a EDNS(0) OPT record.

Fixes #6464
Fixes #21160
Fixes #44135
Fixes #51127

Change-Id: I496a294e9a8015de4161cbc1825b0dc5b4e9f5d8
Reviewed-on: https://go-review.googlesource.com/c/go/+/385035
Trust: Ian Lance Taylor <iant@golang.org>
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Reviewed-by: Matthew Dempsky <mdempsky@google.com>