cmd/compile: rename memory-using operations

cmd/compile: rename memory-using operations

Some *mem ops are loads, some are stores, some are modifications.
Replace mem->load for the loads.
Replace mem->store for the stores.
Replace mem->modify for the load-modify-stores.

The only semantic change in this CL is to mark
ADD(Q|L)constmodify (which used to be ADD(Q|L)constmem) as
both a read and a write, instead of just a write. This is arguably
a bug fix, but the bug isn't triggerable at the moment, see CL 112157.

Change-Id: Iccb45aea817b606adb2d712ff99b10ee28e4616a
Reviewed-on: https://go-review.googlesource.com/112159
Run-TryBot: Keith Randall <khr@golang.org>
Reviewed-by: Brad Fitzpatrick <bradfitz@golang.org>
TryBot-Result: Gobot Gobot <gobot@golang.org>