runtime: allow GC drain whenever write barrier is enabled
Currently we hand-code a set of phases when draining is allowed.
However, this set of phases is conservative. The critical invariant is
simply that the write barrier must be enabled if we're draining.
Shortly we're going to enable mutator assists during the scan phase,
which means we may drain during the scan phase. In preparation, this
commit generalizes these assertions to check the fundamental condition
that the write barrier is enabled, rather than checking that we're in
any particular phase.