runtime: refactor mallocgc

runtime: refactor mallocgc
Make it accept type, combine flags.
Several reasons for the change:
1. mallocgc and settype must be atomic wrt GC
2. settype is called from only one place now
3. it will help performance (eventually settype
functionality must be combined with markallocated)
4. flags are easier to read now (no mallocgc(sz, 0, 1, 0) anymore)

R=golang-dev, iant, nightlyone, rsc, dave, khr, bradfitz, r
CC=golang-dev
https://golang.org/cl/10136043