os/exec: add GODEBUG setting to opt out of ErrDot changes

os/exec: add GODEBUG setting to opt out of ErrDot changes

The changes are likely to break users, and we need
to make it easy to unbreak without code changes.

For #43724.
Fixes #53962.

Change-Id: I105c5d6c801d354467e0cefd268189c18846858e
Reviewed-on: https://go-review.googlesource.com/c/go/+/419794
Reviewed-by: Bryan Mills <bcmills@google.com>
Reviewed-by: Ian Lance Taylor <iant@google.com>
TryBot-Result: Gopher Robot <gobot@golang.org>
Run-TryBot: Russ Cox <rsc@golang.org>