cmd/compile: make OpAddr depend on VarDef in storeOrder
Given a carefully constructed input, writebarrier would
split a block with the OpAddr in the first half and the
VarDef in the second half which ultimately leads to a
compiler crash because the scheduler is no longer able
to put them in the proper order.
To fix, recognize the implicit dependence of OpAddr on
the VarDef of the same symbol if any exists.
This fix was chosen over making OpAddr take a memory
operand to make the dependence explicit, because this
change is less invasive at this late part of the 1.11
release cycle.