runtime: put ReadMemStats debug assertions behind a double-check mode
ReadMemStats has a few assertions it makes about the consistency of the
stats it's about to produce. Specifically, how those stats line up with
runtime-internal stats. These checks are generally useful, but crashing
just because some stats are wrong is a heavy price to pay.
For a long time this wasn't a problem, but very recently it became a
real problem. It turns out that there's real benign skew that can happen
wherein sysmon (which doesn't synchronize with a STW) generates a trace
event when tracing is enabled, and may mutate some stats while
ReadMemStats is running its checks.
Fix this by synchronizing with both sysmon and the tracer. This is a bit
heavy-handed, but better that than false positives.
Also, put the checks behind a debug mode. We want to reduce the risk of
backporting this change, and again, it's not great to crash just because
user-facing stats are off. Still, enable this debug mode during the
runtime tests so we don't lose quite as much coverage from disabling
these checks by default.
Fixes #64401.
Change-Id: I9adb3e5c7161d207648d07373a11da8a5f0fda9a
Reviewed-on: https://go-review.googlesource.com/c/go/+/545277
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